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Drop outs often occur in the chat room through associated connectivity problems and are just a fact of using the internet, they occur to us all. Below are just some ideas and suggestions, you can take or leave them, that's up to you. (Yes, guy subs, I'm talking to YOU) The only people you impress are those who have been on line dominants for less than an hour or the Dommes who got their idea of D/s from internet fantasy fodder.If you yourself outside the chat room just re log in. Real life Dommes are much more impressed to find out that you have a brain, can hold a polite conversation, and have a few manners." or "What would you do to me if I were your sub." We don't do fantasy fodder wank material. What he is doing is working, he has the Dommes attention. I am a little confused by the subs who come in saying they are not worthy, if your not worthy why would a Domme want you?9) If you were to walk into a crowded bar where everyone was busy talking, went and sat in a corner and meekly said Hi nobody would notice you the same applies here don't just say Hello all.... Hi Miss Bonnie ( hint, I dislike being called Mistress Bonnie unless I own you) 10) Being worthy. Perhaps you should do whatever it takes to make yourself worthy!Also, don't submit, even in cyber unless you actually mean it. A lot of cyber relationships are just as important as real life to the people involved and they take them just as seriously.Just sending email and having a hot chat does not make you a sub. If this is just a cyber game to you, be sure your partner feels the same way.Real Dommes expect you to NOT follow orders from anyone you have not agreed to submit to. but there are a lot more submissive males then Dommes online..but there aren't that a lot of quality submissive males ,if you are a quality sub... Don't do the cyber kneeling, serving coffee, rubbing feet and other silly crap In the main room (leave it for the dungeon), we don't go for that. its nothing to be ashamed of its unfortunate that many forget they were new once, and look down upon newbie's. Please remember when you are experienced that you were new once.
Butt kissing is easy, making yourself interesting is a challenge.
My recommendation, is to say something to the effect of 'With all due respect, Mistress So and So, I am submissive only to the one I've gotten to know and decided to submit to' (or something like that, something gentle) you don't EVER have to submit to anyone except YOUR Mistress but you should always treat a Domme with respect.
People who are rudely giving you commands online are probably not real life Dommes, anyway.
Even a cyber relationship needs some mutual ground for understanding.
If you expect it to shift into real time, for gawd sake, try to find someone who has more to offer you than just D/s.
Take the time to demonstrate how intelligent and witty you are. The regulars in Collar Ncuffs will take the time to answer sincere questions. No question is too stupid or silly 8) Some subs here really stand out in Collar Ncuffs.